this is possibly one of the smartest thing someone did hahaahha
this i think is one of the main reasons i don’t see myself ever settling down long term with a dude
you have to deal with their weird perpetual child bullshit that everyone seems to just accept???
like there always seem to be magazine features or scenes on tv shows of wives complaining about all the dumb shit their husbands do, and the workarounds they’ve come up with
i don’t want to complain about my life partner like that
i don’t want to have to come up with workarounds and just accept their patheticness/obliviousness
i want to settle down with someone who is trying just as hard as me to be the best person they can be, and to be as respectful and kind and thoughtful to me and to others as they can
and the popular notion is that men like….can’t do that???
which i understand is gender stereotyping
but if this chart is just celebrated as smart, if the dude this is designed around isn’t an exception
then i’m staying the fuck away from men as anything more than sex buddies ‘cuz i don’t wanna be my partner’s mommy, that sounds totally unappealing to me
liked and reblogged only for comments b/c fuck this “men should be rewarded for things women ‘have’ to do” bullshit. if that’s being hetero, i’m out.